Spicy Truth or Dare for Couples: 30 Questions and 30 Dares

Truth or dare works even better with two players than at a party. There's no audience, you can go as slow or as far as you both like, and the truths often turn out to be more revealing than the dares.

Here's how to play it as a couple, plus 30 truths and 30 dares in three heat levels. For adults 18+.

How to play

1. Agree on your limits first. Each of you reads through the lists below on your own and crosses out anything that isn't a yes. Only what neither of you crossed out stays in the game.
2. Take turns. On your turn, choose truth or dare. Your partner picks a question or a dare from the current level.
3. One free pass per round. Skip anything, no explanation needed.
4. Level up together. Move from Mild to Spicy to Hot only when you both want to.

Mild

Truths

1. What did you think the first time you saw me?
2. What's a small thing I do that you secretly love?
3. What's the most romantic thing you've ever wanted to do but haven't?
4. Which of our dates would you relive tomorrow?
5. What song makes you think of me?
6. What's something you've never told me about your past relationships?
7. What was the moment you knew you liked me?
8. What's your favorite thing about the way I look?
9. Is there a compliment you've always wanted to hear from me?
10. What's one thing you'd like us to do more often?

Dares

1. Give me a compliment that starts with "I noticed...".
2. Sing me one line of a love song, badly.
3. Hold my hand for the next three turns.
4. Show me your best flirting face.
5. Make up a pet name for me on the spot.
6. Show me the last photo you took of me.
7. Kiss my forehead.
8. Tell me your favorite memory of us in exactly ten words.
9. Draw me in 30 seconds.
10. Hug me for 20 seconds without letting go.

Spicy

Truths

11. What's the most attractive thing I've ever done without realizing it?
12. Where's the most unusual place you've wanted to kiss me?
13. What's something you'd like to try with me that we haven't yet?
14. What's the best kiss we've ever had, and why?
15. What outfit of mine do you like most?
16. What's a fantasy you'd be willing to tell me about tonight?
17. When did you last think about me in a way you didn't say out loud?
18. What would your perfect night with me look like, start to finish?
19. What's one thing that always gets your attention?
20. Is there something you've wanted to ask me for but never did?

Dares

11. Kiss the back of my neck, then whisper my name.
12. Take off my socks, as slowly as you can.
13. Give me a two-minute scalp massage.
14. Kiss the inside of my wrist, then work your way up to my elbow.
15. Tell me what you'd do if we had a whole weekend alone.
16. Let me blindfold you for the next two turns.
17. Draw a heart on my skin with your fingertip, wherever I choose.
18. Take a sip of something cold, then kiss me.
19. Dance for me for 30 seconds.
20. Swap one item of clothing with me.

Hot

Truths

21. What's the boldest thing on your yes list?
22. What's something you've always wanted me to do, but never asked?
23. When did you feel most wanted by me?
24. What's one thing you'd like me to take charge of?
25. What's the most daring thing you'd try with me, if we knew we'd both love it?
26. What should I do more of?
27. What's your favorite way to be kissed?
28. What's one rule you'd like to set for the rest of tonight?
29. What's something you'd like to try tonight?
30. What's the thing you're hoping I'll dare you to do?

Dares

21. Pick one item of my clothing, and I'll take it off for you.
22. Kiss me for one full minute, no hands.
23. Let me guide your hands for two minutes.
24. Close your eyes. I kiss you somewhere, and you guess where before you open them.
25. Kiss me like it's our first kiss, then like it's our hundredth.
26. Massage me with oil, wherever I point.
27. Lie still for two minutes while I tease you. No moving.
28. Undress me, one item, using only one hand.
29. Pick the next dare for both of us from our yes list.
30. Tell me what you want tonight in one sentence, and I'll say yes or pass.

Want just the dares?

If you'd rather skip the questions and let a game run the night, TwoNite is a dare game for two on one phone. It doesn't have truth questions, only dares, and minigames like Card War and Higher or Lower. You each pick your limits in private, and it only plays dares you both said yes to, 2,000+ of them from Mild to Extreme. The first scenario is free and plays in your browser. It's on the App Store and Google Play.

Want more dares? See 40 dares for couples.

FAQ

Q: How do you play truth or dare as a couple?

A: Agree on your limits first, then take turns choosing truth or dare. Your partner picks a question or dare from the current heat level. Allow one free pass per round, and move up a level only when you both want to.

Q: What are good spicy truth questions for couples?

A: Questions that are revealing without putting anyone on the spot, like "What's something you'd like to try with me that we haven't yet?" or "When did you feel most wanted by me?"

Q: Is there a truth or dare app for couples?

A: Several couples apps include truth or dare. Our Couples Game Index lists the ones that do, with what each app's listing says. Our own game, TwoNite, is dares only.

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